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Sure she's a good tech blogger, but what does she look like?

Women tech bloggers get comments their male counterparts don’t — ones concerning their appearance. What exactly is up with that?

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I had an e-mail exchange recently with a former IT consultant who now writes about tech. Or at least she did. She has pretty much made up her mind to leave the field altogether due to some derogatory feedback she’s received in the comment sections of her blogs. When I asked if she felt that being a woman was a detriment to a career in tech, she said there are too many factors involved to categorically say yes – one’s age, geographic location, and depth of knowledge also have something to do with how one is perceived.

But she did make one statement that, as far as I can tell in my rudimentary research, is categorically true:

“One only has to look at the comments associated with a story about a woman in technology, which is accompanied by her photo, to realize there are significant differences in how men are perceived as compared to women. If a woman is overweight, her weight will figure into the negative comments, versus a guy who is overweight. If a woman is young and pretty, it becomes especially difficult to find comments that reflect on the story or what the woman has done, as compared to how she looks.”

Here are just two examples I found after searching the Web for about 10 minutes:

From a site called The Minority Report:

“Leah Culver gives me the heads up today by pointing out some significant women in the computer industry today. Personally, I’ve been meaning to dedicate a blog post or two to the incredible hotness of Marissa Mayer, Vice President of Search Product and User Experience at Google. Aside from her yummy gorgeousness, she must be incredibly intelligent to have been one of the first twenty employees of Google and still be there. I’d throw one up there…” [For anyone who thinks Marissa Mayer should be flattered by that first comment, we'll wait here while you go get some band-aids for your dragging knuckles.]

From a discussion on a CNET piece by Caroline McCarthy:

“Caroline… I think you’re a pretty girl and all, but, really, who cares?”

What does a woman’s appearance — good or bad — have to do with the information she is trying to impart? Why are comments about appearance such knee-jerk responses for some people?
According to a piece in The Washington Post, experts say that two factors contribute to the vitriol many women IT bloggers get hit with: The fact that “they’re blogging in a male-dominated field, such as technology, and they’re achieving a degree of prominence.”

What has been my own experience as a female blogger for TechRepublic? At first, I got the occasional sexist e-mails commenting on my blog photo, some complimentary, some suggesting a face transplant, all annoying. But anyone who dared post something like that in the forum discussion was metaphorically maimed by the regular TechRepublic posters. Our membership is mighty good at policing the forums and making sure things remain fair.

My IT consultant friend listed Drupal as another example of an egalitarian community, “so much so that it could be a poster child for all other tech communities.”

But, she says, “When you get into the Web 2.0 worlds, or the Ajax communities, or the ‘hip’ young California-based hot startup communities, women might as well stay home.”

So let’s open the discussion on this topic. Have you noticed a disparity with how women tech bloggers are treated vs. their male counterparts?

Toni BowersToni Bowers is the Head Blogs Editor of TechRepublic. She has been in the publishing industry for 20 years, with concentration in IT-related topics. She has edited newsletters, books, and web sites pertaining to software, IT career, and IT management issues.

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the world is not fair ssampier | 04/08/09
Appropriate response road-dog | 04/08/09
This is how it works... _crystalsinger_ | 04/10/09
No, this is more apt description . . . mhagin@... | 04/10/09
Very Appropriate d`zone | 08/19/09
In my ever so humble opinion mdbizzarri@... | 04/08/09
I never comment on another's appearance PoconoChuck | 04/09/09
Sigh MavMin2 | 04/10/09
I am SO there! NickNielsen | 04/10/09
Is there a minimum? jdclyde | 04/10/09
Not that I know of NickNielsen | 04/10/09
Then why do you post your picture? Allezzam | 04/09/09
Come on, we're all equals here, right? typo@... | 04/10/09
Opinions geames@... | 04/10/09
as a general excuse for acting like a Neanderthal bradfiel@... | 04/10/09
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Well said psingleton! Allezzam | 04/20/09
A reason for pictures of the author lpurcell@... | 04/10/09
You Hit the Nail. . . lodestone | 04/10/09
Bad behavior is genderless! subscribe@... | 04/10/09
Not "ugly" santeewelding | 04/10/09
Bravo Zulu!! joeller | 04/21/09
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Re: Yeah But joeller | 04/23/09
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Why Post a Picture? tommy@... | 04/10/09
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Professional Photos BFilmFan | 04/10/09
As ssampier stated the "world is not fair" rmurphy762@... | 04/09/09
You'd think we IT pros would know better. joeller | 04/10/09
Human Tradition Dogs the Internet minstrelmike@... | 04/10/09
Judging by appearance only ... mark.jenkins@... | 04/10/09
Inescapable, IMO herlizness@... | 04/10/09
Funny thing about templates NickNielsen | 04/10/09
What do women want (Sorry, Freud.....) scott.ager@... | 04/10/09
Not Exactly MavMin2 | 04/10/09
and why do you think that is? marathoner | 04/10/09
what's Freud got to do with it? herlizness@... | 04/10/09
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Excuse you? boxfiddler | 04/13/09
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You know perfectly well what you're doing. boxfiddler | 04/13/09
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I'm not particularly visual. boxfiddler | 04/14/09
Demographics? n.smutz@... | 04/10/09
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TR itself santeewelding | 04/13/09
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Bongo! boxfiddler | 04/14/09
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Toni's post... dcolbert@... | 04/14/09
An unfair world and sexism bluwtrsal@... | 04/10/09
Unfair? He was unarmed ... C_Zakalwe | 04/10/09
So now we are talking about big women? jdclyde | 04/10/09
Physical Characteristics dcolbert@... | 04/13/09
Multi-layered minefield, too. (nt) boxfiddler | 04/13/09
Just thought of one... dcolbert@... | 04/13/09
Isms joeller | 04/21/09
That wasn't the "race" I was referring to jdclyde | 04/13/09
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You missed the smiley after his comment :) NickNielsen | 04/21/09
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I understand the qualifiers public@... | 04/10/09
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It's not just in IT Maevinn | 04/08/09
If you let others... boxfiddler | 04/08/09
RE: It's not just in IT mdeath_2000@... | 04/10/09
Just tacky people... MGP2 | 04/08/09
A woman... MikeZane | 04/09/09
Feel More? NCWeber | 04/09/09
Generalization joeller | 04/10/09
Exceptions don't disprove a rule MikeZane | 04/10/09
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Not just IT bloggers The Scummy One | 04/08/09
Everything. boxfiddler | 04/08/09
lynx is the answer. Jaqui | 04/08/09
Command alone, Jaqui santeewelding | 04/08/09
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Black and white Shellbot | 04/08/09
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Confessions from a man sidekick | 04/08/09
I think... SinisterSlay | 04/08/09
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Sexual harassment suit right there. joeller | 04/10/09
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There is a fine line. steff16@... | 04/10/09
Obviously need Sexual harrassment refresher joeller | 04/21/09
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RE: Sure she's a good tech blogger, but what does she look like? tms020348@... | 04/08/09
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Wow Shellbot | 04/08/09
Its strange to be sure SinisterSlay | 04/08/09
Logic KSoniat | 04/08/09
Indivduals versus groups JamesRL | 04/08/09
Music Ed. KSoniat | 04/08/09
thats a good feild steff16@... | 04/24/09
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But... Jeff_Noel | 04/09/09
Hmmmmmmmmm KSoniat | 04/09/09
RE: Sure she's a good tech blogger, but what does she look like? steff16@... | 04/09/09
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A word or two for Steff kferraro@... | 04/10/09
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downsized hosiery herlizness@... | 04/10/09
This is just a theory SinisterSlay | 04/08/09
The other side of the coin TonytheTiger | 04/08/09
something to be said for being thought so little of SinisterSlay | 04/08/09
Your Theory works in personal relationships but not on the job barntobehappy@... | 04/09/09
Perhaps the web is more personal than professional SinisterSlay | 04/09/09
I would love if people said I was handsome David@... | 04/09/09
Compliments and compliments ... herlizness@... | 04/10/09
I concur and I'm a woman in Technology nica.graves@... | 04/11/09
My Guess cupcake@... | 04/09/09
Hmmm, Odd, i love it when people say Im sexy {nt} SinisterSlay | 04/09/09
So, knowing that someone is lusting/drooling jdclyde | 04/09/09
Depends. boxfiddler | 04/13/09
It is pretty funny jdclyde | 04/13/09
not exactly dreron@... | 04/09/09
That's pretty one sided Oz_Media | 04/08/09
I think Oz has a good point Tink! | 04/08/09
Unfortunately, its within human nature Tai Chi Bear | 04/08/09
Time to take the Red pill adams_john73@... | 04/08/09
Men & Visuals kristina_johnson@... | 04/08/09
not sure if I believe that SinisterSlay | 04/08/09
Pretty sure its true... kristina_johnson@... | 04/08/09
#2 SinisterSlay | 04/08/09
Romance novels = porn for women wdewey@... | 04/10/09
:^0 :^0 :^0 boxfiddler | 04/14/09
Terminology NickNielsen | 04/25/09
Wow realy? Well at least steff16@... | 04/24/09
I don't sit at the computer naked! NickNielsen | 04/25/09
You are right but wrong too Oz_Media | 04/08/09
re: Pretty sure its true... lawrence.bordeaux@... | 04/10/09
sensitivity Oz_Media | 04/08/09
I'm sorry no.... JamesRL | 04/08/09
It is instinctual though Oz_Media | 04/08/09
I am alpha just not all the time JamesRL | 04/08/09
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Humbug joeller | 04/21/09
In a world where we are instructed to not be judgemental jdclyde | 04/09/09
poor behavior runs rampant. Aaron A Baker | 04/13/09
BZZZZZZZZZZZZZ wrong Oz_Media | 04/08/09
Dont forget SinisterSlay | 04/08/09
I don't think so Oz_Media | 04/08/09
alright so SinisterSlay | 04/08/09
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Muscular Providers The Scummy One | 04/10/09
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men see curves, women see culture shava@... | 04/20/09
I am a woman in IT and ... crose@... | 04/10/09
woman on T.R half@... | 04/10/09
Exactly Oz_Media | 04/14/09
And you really feel that doesn't apply to men? Oz_Media | 04/14/09
Just an observation... WTRT | 04/09/09
using what they can against you. ctech1 | 04/09/09
Something related, if you're interested seanferd | 04/08/09
And that is exactly what happens when you OH Smeg | 04/08/09
OMG... feeling snide KSoniat | 04/08/09
Lack of Respect and Anonynimity BFilmFan | 04/08/09
Aw BFF... cupcake@... | 04/09/09
Thanks Miss Smart and Lovely BFilmFan | 04/09/09
Wit lasts longer than looks jdclyde | 04/09/09
You know, its really about perception! cupcake@... | 04/10/09
Exactly, but.... Datacommguy | 04/10/09
Agreed, and Amen Maevinn | 04/10/09
Drupal : nope! lizakindred@... | 04/08/09
Most interesting BFilmFan | 04/08/09
Looks? They are everywhere! zefficace | 04/09/09
It's for credentials and only that! rortega007@... | 04/09/09
RE: Sure she's a good tech blogger, but what does she look like? buchananm@... | 04/09/09
RE: Sure she's a good tech blogger, but what does she look like? masoswald@... | 04/09/09
Professionalism and Maturity Bizzo | 04/09/09
But you are hot! BFilmFan | 04/09/09
And the point is made jdclyde | 04/09/09
Well put mary.anne Thank you. kferraro@... | 04/10/09
RE: Sure she's a good tech blogger, but what does she look like? NCWeber | 04/09/09
Sexism is still alive and well lbain@... | 04/09/09
Sexism is definitely alive Bizzo | 04/09/09
Irony lbain@... | 04/09/09
Not all men are pigs! masoswald@... | 04/09/09
How to Oink Politely BFilmFan | 04/09/09
Absolutely Right Aaron A Baker | 08/22/09
male/female aspect of work. boxfiddler | 04/13/09
Strictly, no. santeewelding | 04/13/09
RE: Sure she's a good tech blogger, but what does she look like? science geek | 04/09/09
Women leaving the IT field... vindog@... | 04/09/09
17 years in IT and not discouraged yet! masoswald@... | 04/09/09
RE: Sure she's a good tech blogger, but what does she look like? El Guapo | 04/09/09
It is called life The 'G-Man.' | 04/09/09
Was it just me... whiplashm1@... | 04/09/09
Wow, she is gorgeous...I had no idea... vindog@... | 04/09/09
did you hear the " laugh compilation" on youtube? jdclyde | 04/09/09
I'm still trying to figure out why I should care walkerc@... | 04/09/09
Actually, in this case jdclyde | 04/09/09
in the kitchen ajohansson@... | 04/10/09
I am reminded of a saying that is quite common on this board jdclyde | 04/09/09
I somewhat agree walkerc@... | 04/13/09
Just part of a long line of complaints jdclyde | 04/13/09
Blame boxfiddler | 04/13/09
I blame you, Boxie jdclyde | 04/13/09
Sweet and innocent? boxfiddler | 04/13/09
Clearly, you missed the 0:-) emoticon jdclyde | 04/13/09
Clearly boxfiddler | 04/13/09
I see, Boxie jdclyde | 04/14/09
Then do this.... laura.bluestone@... | 04/09/09
I like your red hair- so shoot me!!!! vindog@... | 04/09/09
Comment strings like this... BigBlueMarble | 04/09/09
Gays don't react boxfiddler | 04/09/09
No, it is more jdclyde | 04/09/09
RE: Sure she's a good tech blogger, but what does she look like? David@... | 04/09/09
Well, this one is a mine-field dcolbert@... | 04/09/09
So, when looking for love jdclyde | 04/09/09
And dessert. (nt) boxfiddler | 04/09/09
For higher primates dcolbert@... | 04/09/09
A smallish truth santeewelding | 04/09/09
One word. boxfiddler | 04/09/09
survival of the fittest jdclyde | 04/09/09
Oddly enough dcolbert@... | 04/10/09
congrats on the job ajohansson@... | 04/10/09
thanks jdclyde | 04/10/09
Redeployment dcolbert@... | 04/11/09
Geeks like eye candy jdclyde | 04/09/09
Cerebral professions dcolbert@... | 04/13/09
Let me guess santeewelding | 04/13/09
But a pig has personallity... dcolbert@... | 04/13/09
Right back santeewelding | 04/13/09
Too much credit... dcolbert@... | 04/13/09
Then santeewelding | 04/13/09
The way I put it jdclyde | 04/13/09
The secret of my success dcolbert@... | 04/13/09
I don't know about that jdclyde | 04/13/09
RE: Sexism? It happens to both genders, being judged on how you look... phyrefly.phyre@... | 04/09/09
Work for yourself jdclyde | 04/09/09
RE: Sure she's a good tech blogger, but what does she look like? k_vknedgen@... | 04/09/09
The real test will be jdclyde | 04/09/09
Theres always going to be idiots AV . | 04/09/09
Sic' Da Ghosts on 'Em BFilmFan | 04/09/09
Now that would be poetic justice AV . | 04/10/09
RE: Sure she's a good tech blogger, but what does she look like? motokahuna@... | 04/09/09
RE: Sure she's a good tech blogger, but what does she look like? tsegeworku@... | 04/10/09
I am shocked and appalled Rob C | 04/10/09
Interesting pippie1949@... | 04/10/09
RE: Sure she's a good tech blogger, but what does she look like? tony_pearce@... | 04/10/09
You women just need to shut up.......... aaron.whitman@... | 04/10/09
Not just bloggers, no egmccann@... | 04/10/09
It's a mass cultural psychosis dixon@... | 04/10/09
RE: Sure she's a good tech blogger, but what does she look like? geo@... | 04/10/09
Suggestion rexyosu@... | 04/10/09
If people make comments like your examples... sar10538@... | 04/10/09
RE: Sure she's a good tech blogger, but what does she look like? rvaughn9@... | 04/10/09
It's perfectly normal; so is a few females expecting something different. softwareFlunky | 04/10/09
you think.... greg.hruby@... | 04/10/09
If they don't pay my bills, I really don't care Anita Y. Mathis | 04/10/09
RE: Sure she's a good tech blogger, but what does she look like? MikeGall | 04/10/09
RE: Sure she's a good tech blogger, but what does she look like? Moejj | 04/10/09
Give me a break Industrial Controller | 04/10/09
This is by far one of the best topics you've EVER posted on this forum! Photogenic Memory | 04/10/09
RE: Sure she's a good tech blogger, but what does she look like? crobinson@... | 04/10/09
Have not seen it - but it could be a good thing Steve Romero | 04/10/09
Not just tech gjansen@... | 04/10/09
RE: Sure she's a good tech blogger, but what does she look like? curlergirl | 04/10/09
I Tip My Hat to You HamiltonFan | 04/10/09
Excellent rules for living NickNielsen | 04/11/09
Devil's advocate KevinSGreen | 04/10/09
I think 1. I like your hair, and 2. this is a very popular thread! plepkowski@... | 04/10/09
RE: Sure she's a good tech blogger, but what does she look like? ThePoster | 04/10/09
RE: Sure she's a good tech blogger, but what does she look like? reflecting on history | 04/10/09
I follow one simple rule on other people's appearances: underseer@... | 04/10/09
I think you missed the point. Spiritusindomit@... | 04/10/09
This Maverick Disagrees... hopetorley@... | 04/11/09
You're completely right... hopetorley@... | 04/11/09
The only way to avoid this as a female tech blogger... Spiritusindomit@... | 04/10/09
RE: Sure she's a good tech blogger, but what does she look like? buddm@... | 04/10/09
RE: Sure she's a good tech blogger, but what does she look like? geslinux | 04/10/09
RE: Sure she's a good tech blogger, but what does she look like? EddieS | 04/10/09
RE: Sure she's a good tech blogger, but what does she look like? Vquest55@... | 04/10/09
RE: Sure she's a good tech blogger, but what does she look like? mcwong | 04/10/09
Wow! That sure is sexist! mikifinaz1@... | 04/10/09
RE: Sure she's a good tech blogger, but what does she look like? jamesski | 04/10/09
I see it now santeewelding | 04/10/09
RE: Sure she's a good tech blogger, but what does she look like? scott2718281828@... | 04/10/09
RE: Sure she's a good tech blogger, but what does she look like? utakatsu_shin@... | 04/10/09
RE: Sure she's a good tech blogger, but what does she look like? trashbin9@... | 04/10/09
RE: Sure she's a good tech blogger, but... RandyM55 | 04/11/09
I gotta wonder boxfiddler | 04/13/09
I gotta wonder jdclyde | 04/13/09
At one point in life I did. boxfiddler | 04/13/09
It does show jdclyde | 04/13/09
'scuse me santeewelding | 04/13/09
Coward jdclyde | 04/13/09
Whatever I want??? boxfiddler | 04/13/09
Bananas jdclyde | 04/13/09
Bananas. boxfiddler | 04/13/09
Why Tech men are childish and care about a womans looks and not her brains lynda.bengtsson@... | 04/13/09
Broad brush... NotSoChiGuy | 04/13/09
Anyone that works in IT is considerd a geek rmurphy762@... | 04/13/09
Wow, get out much? jdclyde | 04/13/09
A case of the Mondays? ryumaou@... | 04/13/09
That, boxfiddler | 04/13/09
My Balanced Reply BFilmFan | 04/13/09
Confirmed santeewelding | 04/13/09
Wow. Bizzo | 04/14/09
Wow jdclyde | 04/14/09
I don?t hate all men, just the boys lynda.bengtsson@... | 04/21/09
Great The 'G-Man.' | 04/14/09
A sense of Humor, lynda.bengtsson@... | 04/21/09
Times have changed ross@... | 04/13/09
Some men still need a soother?? Aaron A Baker | 04/13/09
I personally have found jdclyde | 04/13/09
Hoo boy. boxfiddler | 04/13/09
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